Sara Eckel Coach & Author Sara Eckel is a personal coach and the author of It’s Not You: 27 (Wrong) Reasons You’re Single. Her writing has appeared in the New York Times, the Washington Post and the Guardian. You can also find her on Twitter and Facebook. ‘How Do I Explain My (Lack of) Relationship History? ‘I Have No Relationship Experience’ ‘I’m Tired of Being Rejected’ A Reader Asks ‘Am I Undateable?’ ‘Why Are My Married Friends So Smug?’ ‘How Do I Get Her Out of My Head?’ Headstrong? Opinionated? Guys Dig That ‘Is He Taking it Slow, or Just Not That Into Me?’ Dare to Date on Valentine’s Day