I had tried eHarmony on and off for several years and after a month or two, would tire of the process and stop. I had done this the last time and during my lapse, she wrote me, but I did not see it for several weeks when I got back on to check things out.

We just mesh, even when we have nothing to say there is that comfort level (We have "A Match"). Though marrying in her home state of Vermont, we will continue to live in Northern VA. We each have 2 older children who will participate and she has become a huge VA Tech "Hokie" football fan!